Wife slut

Everywhere mountains of dirty dishes, scattered linen, toys and diapers. On the curtains flaunt grease stains, and the ceiling is dotted with cobwebs.

No, it’s not childish pranks and not hurricane Katrina, that’s what happens when you take to wife a slut. For many men, especially those who are different its cleanliness, it is a disaster. First, get acquainted with a beautiful interesting girl, fall in love, lead in your home, but in the end it makes this home the perfect environment for germs.

How to re-educate its faithful, so it was time for cleaning and Laundry? We will try to understand.

«We need to talk»

To begin with, of course, is to try gently and simply hint that you are very tired at work, and you madly would like coming home to find not only a loving wife but also clean, tidy house with a hot dinner on the table. In any case it is not necessary to say that a woman’s place is in the kitchen, or that its historical destiny is to scrub the house, so you can only worsen. Your wife will trigger a defensive reaction, and in the end the house will remain uncollected from the act of protest.

Check

Once you informed her about your discontent, you need to pay attention to how it will behave. If the house is still chaos, you also make no attempt to housekeeping, perhaps your beloved simply used the role of housewife always gets you, even at this time, the initiative will be undertaking.

If the wait was long, and live in dirty conditions less pleasant with each passing day, you can try to start caring about yourself-wash and iron your things, cook for yourself, wash the dishes, too, only for themselves. After a while it seems. At least it should.

Joint service

The rules may also have a positive impact on the cleanliness. For example, we can agree that after meals everyone washes their dishes, things with change of clothes should be immediately put into the closet, and the tub should be cleaned each time after bathing.

Also useful will be a joint service, as personal example is always the best tool of the educational process. You can assign a specific day of the week that you will devote major cleaning. The division of responsibilities in the household: who will take out the garbage, wash the floor who who wipe the dust, etc.

Promotion

It is important to praise him for every Cup washed and wiped dust from a shelf, she needs to know you appreciate her desire to make the house more comfortable. Even if you don’t really believe that she deserves it, because just doing her job, still to the process of managing caused her positive emotions should be encouraged in her actions.

An extreme measure

The character and behavior of any person is formed since childhood. Carelessness of an adult may be due to the influence of his family. Maybe in her house to clean treated without bigotry, never had to clean or, on the contrary, is constantly forced to that. In any case, an adult is very difficult to rehabilitate.

If your family nothing has changed, and you don’t feel that the woman is ready to try for you whether or not to save a marriage? In this case, the gap brand will not be associated with the fact that she was a bad hostess and didn’t know how to wash dishes, not at all. Divorce happens because of the lack of love from her side, how else can you describe ignoring the requests of her husband?

A view from the other side

Although maybe your argument about her impropriety and exaggerated. After all, there are a lot of people, including men who are very sensitive to any manifestation of the disorder. Even if the vase on the table is wrong (as it seems), it freaks them out. Try to evaluate the situation from this side.

What is home comfort? It is not only the perfect clean and tidy, ironed shirts and cooked dinner. Because first of all it is the atmosphere that is present in the house. If in the relations of men and women, the order, and in the house of mess will not happen!